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Observations on how Montenegrins celebrate their holidays

Updated: Nov 23


Hello everyone,


As a foreigner who has been living in Montenegro for several years, I would like to share my observations on how Montenegrins celebrate their holidays. Their culture and way of celebrating are unique and very interesting.


How Montenegrins Celebrate Holidays

Montenegrins are very sociable and love to gather with family and friends. Whether it's a national holiday, a family celebration, or just a get-together, the atmosphere is always warm and cheerful.


Celebrations at Home

Many Montenegrins prefer to celebrate at home, where they gather a large number of relatives and friends. The tables are full of traditional dishes and drinks, and the atmosphere is very relaxed.

  • "Welcome!" – You will often hear this word when you enter a Montenegrin home.

  • "Help yourself." – The hosts are very hospitable and always offer guests the best they have.


Celebrations in Restaurants and Cafes

However, it is not uncommon for Montenegrins to celebrate in restaurants or cafes. They feel relaxed there because everything is already prepared, and they can focus on enjoying the company.

  • "One large table for twenty people, please." – Montenegrins often gather a large number of people at the table.

  • "Bring another bottle of wine." – Wine is often an essential part of the celebration.


Alcohol and Conversations

When it comes to alcohol, Montenegrins enjoy drinking, but they do it with style. Wine, rakija, and beer are the most common choices. After a few glasses, the atmosphere becomes even more cheerful, and the conversations deeper and more emotional.

  • "Cheers!" – A common toast used while drinking.

  • "Tell me about it..." – Conversations are often long and detailed because Montenegrins love to share stories and experiences.


Mentality and Behavior

Montenegrins are known for their relaxed and patient nature. They love to enjoy the moment and are not prone to rushing. When they gather, everything happens slowly, with lots of laughter and conversation.

  • "No rush." – You will often hear this phrase, reflecting their approach to life.

  • "Take it easy, we'll get everything done." – Another expression that shows their calmness.


Useful Tips for Foreigners

If you plan to attend a Montenegrin celebration, here are a few tips:

  • Be prepared for a long meal. – Meals can last for hours because eating is slow, and every bite is enjoyed.

  • Join in the conversations. – Montenegrins love to talk and appreciate it when you join the conversation.

  • Respect the tradition. – Show respect for their customs and culture.


I hope these tips will be useful to you and that you will enjoy Montenegrin celebrations as much as I do. It's always nice to see how people love their country and how they celebrate together.


Sincerely,An Experienced Foreigner in Montenegro

Miloš: Hi, Marko! Have you heard that Statehood Day is coming up?

Marko: Hi, Miloš! Yes, I heard. Are you thinking about having a party?

Miloš: Yes, I wanted to ask you about it. What do you think about organizing a big celebration at my place?

Marko: Great idea! How many people are you planning to invite?

Miloš: I think there will be about twenty people. I'll invite family and a few close friends. Are you bringing your family?

Marko: Of course, we will all come. Do you need us to bring anything?

Miloš: If you can, bring some homemade rakija and maybe some pršut. I'll take care of the main dish and the wine.

Marko: Okay, I'll bring rakija and pršut. What time do you plan to start?

Miloš: I plan to start around 5 PM so that we have plenty of time for everything.

Marko: Great, we'll be there at 5 PM. Do you need help with the preparations?

Miloš: It would be great if you could come a little earlier and help me with the tables and chairs.

Marko: Sure, I'll come an hour earlier to help. Is there anything else that needs to be organized?

Miloš: I think everything is fine. Just bring a good mood and be ready for a long evening.

Marko: Of course, you know we always have a good time. See you soon!

Miloš: See you, Marko! Thanks for your help, and I can't wait for everyone to get together.

Marko: Me too! It will be a great celebration. See you then!

Miloš: See you then, bye!

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